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Poet-a-Day: Meet Ashley M. Jones

By Tania Runyan 13 Comments

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Poet-a-Day: Meet Ashley M. Jones

I first learned about Ashley M. Jones from Megan Willome’s post Creating an “I Love Poetry Moment”: Magic City’s Ashley M. Jones. When I learned that Jones was a lover and writer of poetic forms, I immediately ordered, then devoured, her collection dark / / thing. I’ve since enjoyed corresponding with, and following on Facebook, a woman whose life reflects as much truth-telling fervor as her poems.

Jones has two poems (from that collection I bought) in How to Write a Form Poem: a villanelle and a sestina. Below is a sneak peak—the first two stanzas—of her “Kindergarten Villanelle.”

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“Kindergarten Villanelle” (excerpt)

I’m brown, he’s not. The blocks are blue and red.
Jake Jones and I play house every day—
in Kindergarten, it doesn’t take much to have a best friend.

I make his supper daily, plastic peas and bread,
we build skyscrapers with our blocks, we play—
I’m brown, he’s not. The blocks are blue and red…

—Ashley M. Jones

The villanelle’s refrains (lines 1 and 3) immediately set the stage for tension in this heartbreaking poem. (Want to know the rest? Buy her book. Then How to Write a Form Poem, too.) Here’s what Jones has to say about “Kindergarten Villanelle.”

Tania Runyan (TR): Tell me a little about the origin story of this poem.

Ashley M. Jones (AMJ): When I was in kindergarten, I had a best friend—a boy who was white. We shared a last name (Jones) and we played games together every single day. It was a sweet friendship. One of our favorite games was “house,” where we’d pretend to be husband and wife in a little wooden kitchen. We played blocks together. We fingerpainted together.

One day, my friend’s parents came to visit, and although the memory is mostly foggy, I remember quite clearly the look on their faces seeing him play house with me. I didn’t understand it then—all I knew was that my friend was telling me that those were his family members, and I was happy to see them, even from afar.

The next day, my friend played with another student—a blonde white girl. They wouldn’t let me play with them. They gave no reasons. My five-year-old mind was blown, to say the very least. I was hurt. That was my first experience with racism, and I’ve never forgotten its sting.

TR: Why did you choose to write the poem as a villanelle? Or did the form “cause” the poem to happen?

AMJ: I’ve tried to write a poem about that experience so many times, it’s hard to say how I landed on the villanelle, but my best guess would be that I always turn to this form when I want to obsess. I wanted to be trapped by the idea that my friend and I were different colors, that we were best friends. I wanted to swim in that and sprinkle the details about what happened around it so the reader could feel the same cage I felt in that moment, and, in many ways, the cage I still feel. It isn’t that I’m obsessed with the idea of having a white friend—it wasn’t his whiteness that drew me to that friend back then. I’m more obsessed with the idea that racism is an ever-present thing. One cannot escape it.

TR: What do you hope poets can learn from a book like How to Write a Form Poem?

I hope poets learn that form is truly for everyone. Like poetry at large, it is too often taught as something highfalutin or somehow representative of someone’s superior intelligence. Instead, form can be a useful tool for any poet, and it can serve the purpose of supporting the content, not just demonstrating a particular poet’s technical skill.

About Ashley M. Jones

Ashley M. Jones, current poet laureate of Alabama, holds an MFA in Poetry from Florida International University, and she is the author of Magic City Gospel (Hub City Press 2017), dark / / thing (Pleiades Press 2019), and REPARATIONS NOW! (Hub City Press 2021). Her poetry has earned several awards, including the Rona Jaffe Foundation Writers Award, the Silver Medal in the Independent Publishers Book Awards, the Lena-Miles Wever Todd Prize for Poetry, a Literature Fellowship from the Alabama State Council on the Arts, the Lucille Clifton Poetry Prize, and the Lucille Clifton Legacy Award. Her poems and essays appear in or are forthcoming at CNN, The Oxford American, Origins Journal, The Quarry by Split This Rock, Obsidian, and many others. She teaches at the Alabama School of Fine Arts, she co-directs PEN Birmingham, and she is the founding director of the Magic City Poetry Festival.

Photo by Rain0957, Creative Commons, via Flickr. Post by Tania Runyan.

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Tania Runyan lives in Lindenhurst, Illinois, a sort-of suburb, sort-of small town, where the deer and the minivans play. She's a 2011 NEA fellow and mama to four poetry books—A Thousand Vessels, Simple Weight, Delicious Air, and What Will Soon Take Place—and three (much cuter and noisier) human children. Tania is also the author of five non-fiction books—Making Peace with Paradise, How To Read a Poem, How to Write a Poem, How to Write a Form Poem, and How to Write a College Application Essay. Visit her at TaniaRunyan.com
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About Tania Runyan

Tania Runyan lives in Lindenhurst, Illinois, a sort-of suburb, sort-of small town, where the deer and the minivans play. She's a 2011 NEA fellow and mama to four poetry books—A Thousand Vessels, Simple Weight, Delicious Air, and What Will Soon Take Place—and three (much cuter and noisier) human children. Tania is also the author of five non-fiction books—Making Peace with Paradise, How To Read a Poem, How to Write a Poem, How to Write a Form Poem, and How to Write a College Application Essay. Visit her at TaniaRunyan.com

Comments

  1. L.L. Barkat says

    April 5, 2021 at 12:12 pm

    Ashley, thank you for sharing the hard story behind this poem. This is a generous gift from you.

    I do think of the villanelle as one of the best containers for sorrow. Though now I’m also considering how that, in its darker iteration, can morph to being a cage for frustration and rage. (I suppose Dylan Thomas did show us this already, but I’m thinking of it afresh here, with a shift in direction.)

    How often are you writing in form these days? I loved your sestina, too, and am hoping that you’ll do more with form in the future.

    Reply
    • Ashley M. Jones says

      April 10, 2021 at 4:13 pm

      Thanks so much–I’m glad the poem resonated with you. I agree–the villanelle form can definitely fit a lot of emotions–sorrow, rage, happiness–I’ve even written one to capture nostalgia & a memory of eating red dirt with my late Aunt Hattie.

      I’m still writing in form these days–my new book, REPARATIONS NOW!, has all kinds of forms–traditional and nontraditional. I find form to be quite liberating once we remove the idea that there’s a hierarchy between formal and free verse poetry, but once realize that all poems are presented in the way that helps them be best communicated. Sometimes, it’s got to be a sonnet. Sometimes, it’s got to be a bar graph poem. Sometimes, it’s a block of prose.

      Reply
      • L.L. Barkat says

        April 10, 2021 at 7:11 pm

        Oooo. Now I want to read the red dirt villanelle. (And I want to hear about Aunt Hattie, in prose.)

        Reply
  2. Bethany Rohde says

    April 5, 2021 at 1:54 pm

    “I always turn to this form when I want to obsess. I wanted to be trapped by the idea that my friend and I were different colors, that we were best friends. I wanted to swim in that and sprinkle the details about what happened around it so the reader could feel the same cage I felt in that moment, and, in many ways, the cage I still feel.”

    Such a powerful, heartbreaking, and illuminating interview. Thank you for sharing it.

    Reply
    • Ashley M. Jones says

      April 10, 2021 at 4:14 pm

      Thank you so much for reading, Bethany!

      Reply
  3. Megan Willome says

    April 5, 2021 at 6:24 pm

    Thank you, Ashley. You demonstrate the power of form poetry to communicate a memory so much more powerfully than simply telling the story from point A to point B.

    Reply
    • Tania Runyan says

      April 10, 2021 at 10:52 am

      Yes, that’s what I love about form. The “how” becomes just as powerful as the “what,” until the two merge and you can’t tell them apart. That’s how you know the form is working.

      Reply
      • Ashley M. Jones says

        April 10, 2021 at 4:16 pm

        So true, Tania!

        Reply
    • Ashley M. Jones says

      April 10, 2021 at 4:15 pm

      Thanks so much, Megan–I really do believe the poem will let us know how it wants to be born, and if we listen to that, form or not, we’ll tell the story in a dynamic and alive sort of way.

      Reply
  4. Sandra Heska King says

    April 6, 2021 at 8:06 pm

    In Kindergarten it doesn’t take much to have a best friend. . .

    In Kindergarten, it doesn’t take much to lose a best friend.
    I’m brown, they’re not. The blocks are blue and red.

    That shift just kinda breaks my heart. Thanks so much for sharing this tender story.

    Reply
    • Katie says

      April 10, 2021 at 11:05 am

      Mine too, Sandy.
      And yes, thank you Tania for sharing this story.
      Gratefully,
      Katie

      Reply
      • Ashley M. Jones says

        April 10, 2021 at 4:17 pm

        Thanks for reading, Katie.

        Reply
    • Ashley M. Jones says

      April 10, 2021 at 4:17 pm

      Thank you, Sandra, for reading. The heartbreak was real for me, and in some ways, it’s still palpable. This poem helps me to pour some of it into the page so I don’t have to hold it all, all the time.

      Reply

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