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You Should Write a Book

By Charity Singleton Craig 18 Comments

“You should write lots of books and make lots of money, ” my husband said to me one day as we were driving.

“Yeah, no pressure, right?” I said. “Thanks a lot.”

“No, I mean, you are a good enough writer, so you should write books, ” he replied. Flattery is underrated.

“I have a book I’ve been thinking about writing, ” I told him.

“Really?” he said. He doesn’t know many writers. Don’t we always have a book we’re thinking about writing?

The truth is, I have written a couple of books. They sit deep in the recesses of my laptop, both of them transferred from one computer to the next, having been written years ago. One of them will never see the light of day. I wrote a memoir after a particularly difficult time in my life; I needed to write it for me.

The other was requested by a publisher after they reviewed my book proposal, and it sat firmly in the “maybe” pile for months. I had hoped it would be my “break.” When I finally received a courteous rejection letter – where have I put that thing? – I stopped writing for three months and couldn’t even call myself a writer for a while.

Now my husband wants me to write a book. He’s not alone.

On a fairly regular basis, some well-meaning friend will approach me and ask if I’ve ever thought about writing a book. (Apparently they don’t know many writers, either.) I usually say “yes, ” and then they tell me that they would buy my book if I ever write it. Well, some say they would buy it. Others say just they would “read” it. And most ask if they can have an autographed copy. I say “yes, ” but what I really want to say is that I will be happy to sign a copy they have purchased. Writers gotta eat.

Recently, a friend I work with told me that she and her daughter had decided that I should write a book because they love reading my blog. The conversation happened just days after my husband had the same idea. I felt a flutter near my esophagus and an ache between my shoulder blades. Is it possible that it’s time to try again?

Besides the potential for identity-crushing rejection, my other hesitation about writing a book is my great fear that I am not disciplined enough for such a big project. “Do you think I actually have it in me to sit down day after day and do the work it will take to write a book?” I asked my husband as we drove out of town for the weekend.  Just that day I had watched my entire allotment of writing time float down the drain while I talked with family, answered email, and closed up shop early so we could get a jump on traffic.

“Well, how about we say that whoever writes a book first, you or me, has to treat the other to a weekend away, ” he said.

I glared at him. “Thanks a lot, ” I said, feeling a little wounded. Like it’s just that easy. My husband isn’t even a writer.

He was smiling kindly, though. He was up to something. That’s when I remembered the “thank you” notes from our wedding. A few months back, I was having a hard time getting them written until my husband gave me an incentive: a weekend shopping trip if I got them in the mail by a certain date. I’m just competitive enough that challenges like that work for me.

“You’re on, ” I said. “Only, how about we raise the stakes. First one done has to take the other on a trip to Italy.” I have always wanted to go to Italy.

“Wow, well, in that case, first one to write AND publish a book has to take the other one to Italy, ” he countered. I trembled.

When we got home from our weekend trip, I started outlining.

And I’m learning a little Italian, too. “Ho scritto un libro.” (I wrote a book.)

I figure while I am riding in a gondolier in Venice, someone might ask me why I’m there.

Photo by eleaf. Creative Commons license via Flickr. Post by Charity Singleton Craig.
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Charity Singleton Craig
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Charity Singleton Craig is the author of The Art of the Essay: From Ordinary Life to Extraordinary Wordsand co-author of the popular title On Being a Writer: 12 Simple Habits for a Writing Life That Lasts. She has served as an editor, contributing writer, and workshop leader for Tweetspeak Poetry and currently writes for corporate clients and publications such as Edible Indy. She is also a two-time recipient of the Arts in the Parks and Historic Sites Grant from the Indiana Arts Commission and the Indiana Department of Natural Resources, to write about the state parks and present writing programs to park visitors.
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About Charity Singleton Craig

Charity Singleton Craig is the author of The Art of the Essay: From Ordinary Life to Extraordinary Words and co-author of the popular title On Being a Writer: 12 Simple Habits for a Writing Life That Lasts. She has served as an editor, contributing writer, and workshop leader for Tweetspeak Poetry and currently writes for corporate clients and publications such as Edible Indy. She is also a two-time recipient of the Arts in the Parks and Historic Sites Grant from the Indiana Arts Commission and the Indiana Department of Natural Resources, to write about the state parks and present writing programs to park visitors.

Comments

  1. SimplyDarlene says

    July 24, 2013 at 9:20 am

    Oh miss Charity, HOORAY! & WRITE-ON!

    And in other news (<– not a very good segue, this I know) when you board the Driven to Distraction bus, give me a hat tip because you'll discover that I'm the driver.

    That's how I landed here today: Avenue of Avoidance.

    Anyway, when you get to Italy, please buy me a little bottle of olive oil… the only thing my husband has offered me for the completion of my book is to retire. (I still love him, even if the dude doesn't have a writerly clue.)

    Blessings.

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:28 pm

      Darlene – Olive oil it is! And yes, distraction is certainly my enemy as well.

      Reply
  2. Megan Willome says

    July 24, 2013 at 11:07 am

    Oh, Charity, I just love you so much!

    People say it to me, too. I usually just roll my eyes. Maybe what I need is a dare, like your husband gave you.
    After all, once my husband got me to climb a waterfall by saying, “You just stay here. I’ll go on up. It’s probably not all that great.”

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:48 pm

      Megan – I’m surprised how much the dares seem to help me! Sounds like our husbands would get along well!

      Reply
    • Sheila Seiler Lagrand says

      July 31, 2013 at 8:27 am

      hijack:

      Megan, I have this amazing image of you climbing a waterfall. Literally. Gaining a foothold in the flowing water, grabbing a handful of it streaming down.

      Wow.

      /hijack.

      Reply
  3. Will Willingham says

    July 24, 2013 at 10:20 am

    Love the way this ends.

    Having said it out loud, how’s the pressure feeling now, Charity? 😉

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:47 pm

      Hopefully, the pressure will help!

      Reply
  4. Maureen Doallas says

    July 24, 2013 at 11:31 am

    You will love Italy!

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:49 pm

      I can’t wait!

      Reply
  5. Jody Collins says

    July 24, 2013 at 5:06 pm

    Oh, Charity, you may have started something, “The Women Writers Who Badly Would Love to See Italy”….

    Great idea.

    Yeah, it’s the sitting down to do it discipline. If people didn’t need clean clothes to wear or food to eat, we’d have all the time in the world to write…right?

    Good luck!

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:50 pm

      Jody – Maybe we should plan a group tour for “The Women Writers Who Badly Would Love to See Italy.”

      Yes, it’s the discipline. The sitting down and doing the work that is so hard, isn’t it?

      Reply
  6. Donna says

    July 25, 2013 at 6:11 am

    This is fantastic!!! Can’t wait to read your book!!! And I know your husband will LOVE being taken to Italy on the arm of his published wife!!! 😉 it’s a great incentive, Italy! (My husband and I are using it, too!) Ciao!

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:51 pm

      Donna – So glad to know that my husband and I will not be the only Americans in Italy who finally made it on a dare! Ciao to you, too!

      Reply
  7. Ann Kroeker says

    July 25, 2013 at 6:18 pm

    That’s amore!

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    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 8:00 pm

      Si!!

      Reply
  8. Diana Trautwein says

    July 27, 2013 at 6:10 pm

    Well, YES. Why not? Although I struggle with the discipline/distraction bit, too, and more than a little bit of outright terror and confusion. If you write it, I’ll read it, that’s for sure.

    Reply
    • Charity Singleton Craig says

      July 28, 2013 at 7:53 pm

      Terror and confusion describes how I feel about writing a book, too, Diana! Thanks for being such a great encouragement!

      Reply
  9. Sheila Seiler Lagrand says

    July 31, 2013 at 8:28 am

    Charity,

    Such lovely news! After I buy my copy, will you please autograph it for me?

    And I smile so big when I read your words about your husband.

    xoxo
    S.

    Reply

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